Good morning Blessed Manifestation family! Sometimes when everything seems to be aligned and forward moving, we encounter a little blast from the past, as if to test our resolve. What do you want your future to look like? More like what it was before or something else? The choice is yours.
There’s conflict between your heart and mind about a decision; possibly you are having a hard time letting go of something, such as a job or a relationship–something you know you have to move on from but there are lingering feelings there. In essence what’s happening is you are not sure if a better job, or circumstance will actually come along so you’re contemplating remaining in place because it’s already familiar to you. But nothing can grow in the comfort zone. You’re lamenting over a small loss when there are much bigger gains ahead.
In this case, use your head. Look to the logical solution to make an informed decision. You might think you’re not strong enough to move on and forward, but you are much stronger than you think. You are much smarter and braver than you think. You deserve more than you think. Strategy will be your ally.
If an old flame comes knocking on your door, take a breath and ask them to give you a moment to gather your thoughts. Think of the old tricks they’ve tried on you to lure you in; what are your weaknesses with them? Try to avoid their traps, and if able, avoid them altogether.
If a job or opportunity is trying to keep you, even if they are offering you more of what you want, tell them you would only consider if they give you everything you want; everything you are in need of. What would it take to keep you? Think about it and double it. Don’t just think in terms of money but benefits as well (and I don’t mean sick time, etc). Does this job give you room to breathe? Room for wellness? Are you connected to the work? There are more things to consider than just what you will get paid.
Most importantly be patient with yourself as you transition from one state of being to another. It’s OK if you stumble or take a step back along the way; love yourself anyway! Trust that you will find a way out of this outdated cycle and on to greener pastures.
Have a blessed day all!